Learn kink with me: Learn with me as I explore kink and kink headspace in this blog – I’ll be posting my research notes here.
Who we are: Slow Knight is a kinky little brand about self-exploration, self-love, and *gradual* self-improvement.
What we’re going to do: We’re going to unapologetically explore kink and what it does to us! It’s step one for a reason: there’s plenty of ways to love oneself. Knowing how to do it right requires some self-exploration first.
A few things I’ve learned:
- Development is the goal: Everything changes. Change can be welcome if you frame it as development. I’m 36 and I LIKE developing – I am still growing, still learning, and still maturing. As I develop, I understand myself better. As new ways of living and being are discovered, I get to compare myself against them and figure out how I want to live my life.
- Research is key : In self-exploration, its crucial to understand your options. My preference was to study first, and then try things out. Kink books like the Leatherman’s Handbook and Urban Aboriginals, and then kinky play, have taught me that I am merely a student. Kink provides a format to study the self.
- Headspace = orgasm : Finding the right headspace is a huge part of sexual satisfaction. Some like it hard, and some like it super soft, but it’s all about getting somewhere in your head – with the tools of kink, I get to explore hard and soft and everything in between.
- Community is crucial: I am just a student and there is a lot to learn. I look to my community here in Sacramento and further afield for input into this venture. Thank you for your support - it means the world to me.
Research with me: Many of you are new to kinky play – and that’s ok! Welcome! We are on our way to releasing a new set of harness kits designed to inspire its wearer to explore the greatness of good old kink. Sign up for our newsletter and stay tuned for more about the Old Gods – they once ruled the world, and they are coming back!